We are the Enablers, my friend... And we'll keep on fighting till the end.
This is a legit question I've been asking myself and my gal pals for the last several months. Hell, probably the last several years. Where are the real men? You know the type: confident, but not cocky; chivalrous and polite with a sense of pride in themselves that mirrors how men used to be before our time. Men who would make it a point to speak (physically) to a woman he found attractive or interesting. Men who would pursue a woman he was interested in dating; ask them to dinner, send flowers, walk them to the door after a date, simply tell them they are interested. They seemed genuinely interested, intrigued, and made the efforts to reveal it. They would do their hair and dress nice in order to make an impression. They would show up with flowers or something along those lines on a date. A time when holding hands was a big deal; the first kiss was an experience worth waiting for; men learned about their women; men were interested in pleasing (and not sexually) their women emotiona...